Opposite Attract
We all have learned this in science n have seen this applying in our daily practical life too… we have seen how 2 opposite ppl get along sooo well…. Even through they don’t have anything in common still they click….So many times we say…what she must have liked in him…or what he must have liked in her…….they don’t suit as pair…
In our life ..if we look this has happened soo many times….Like why do we wait for the call from a person..who dosent care for us?? Wait to send him/her sms knowing u will never get a reply…than why do we do it???? Why do we do certain things…answering or result to which we already know or can predict…..I think coz we believe in Keep trying…maybe some day we might succeed…..we keep on hoping some day…sometime maybe he/she will call…n thus never switchoff our cell….While we r the one who always makes call n cares…while partner hardly cares or calls…ppl of two opposite nature here….
I am a gal n thus can talk of behalf of gals….that each must have come across number of proposals ( not talking abt indecent proposals here ) Proposals like ‘I love u’….n ‘Do u also Love me’ and many such lines….n 60 % of those proposals we might have rejected or not accepted saying or thinking…its just infatuation or attraction…or ‘we r just friends’…’hoz that possible’….‘I never thought in that way abt u’….. Few lines I remember from the movie ‘Hum Tum”….I Mean You're All The Same YaarHum Achche Dost Hai Par Uss Nazar Se Tumko Dekha NahinWoh Sab To Teek Hai Par Uss Barein Mein Maine Socha NahinThan sometimes like any day we look back n see…n try to think maybe I should have said ‘YES’ to him than….atleast he would have cared for meWe had soo much in common…. BUT today look where we r…The person I love..dosnt care..or have time for me…..He hardly bother..I m happy, sador whatever…..I mean..why we never get what we want n long for in life??? Whats the difference in being with Him…n in being Alone…… I don’t see any difference…..Sab Se Alag Hai Tum Yeh Keh Ke Paas Tumhaare AayeAur Kuch Din Mein Tum Mein Alag Sa Kuch Bhi Na Usko Paiye…
Okk friends I changed my track..was writing abt Opposites Attract…Yes…we never cared for ppl we really cared for Us….n now over a period of timeLove fades away…or disappears….seeing that u r getting love in return… fir yeah halat ho jaati hai..after some time……Why we all run for ppl who always end up hurting Us….some questions r soo difficult to b answered…n Life is always so complicated…..n these relationships…. everyone is unhappy or suffering maybe we expect too much…..or we like to suffer…n r used to pain….still we get attracted to ppl who gives us pain…
Pehle Pehle Bawarein Jaise Aas Paas Mand Rai Phir Busy Hoon Kehkar Tumko Woh Tarkai Samjha Karo Darling Aaj Bohat Kaam Door Hua To Kya Dil Mein Tumhaara Naam Hai Jiss Chehre Par Marte Hai Woh Boring Ho Jaaye Kuch Hi Din Mein Nazrein Inki Idhar Udhar Mand Rai Sirf Pyaar Se Zindagi Nahin Chalti
posted by Sheenu at 9:22 PM
5 Comments:
well ... to me dosent seems like imagination ... and i agree with whatever written there ... i think its not only opposite ... its about a perfect bland of opposite qualities and same qualities which attract. And yea one can see its from a gal's persepective because there are very few guys who are proposed many times ... But sometimes when you are being proposed many a times it become a bit troubling also ... kher i guess i too drove away from the topic ;)
kher nice to read ... nice random thoughts :D
I agree tht always guys who propose, or in most of d cases even gals feel d same they xpect guys 2 propose..but mostly gals get to see tis, n literally its troubling. She don't wanna hurt sum1 , but in tht way many times she do.......
Well in a way she is hurting ... but she has her reasons also ... She is also a human being ... its wrong on part of guys to do when they dont know what's in the other person's mind. She may also be in love ... and so i recon one should spend time in first knowing them and then proposing. and even if you like them and you know she is in a relationship ... for the sake of friendship we should not hide :) cause you never know ...
Its not easy to say always ... its never easy, but one should ... because thats about being fair to yrself and yr friend :)
I agree wid u Kshitij. But you know even if you are very clear n you don't have feelings for other person, but the other person has feelings 4 u.. woh sirf wahi dekhta hai or sunta hai jo woh dekhna chahta hai.
There is some god gift given to girl. She is attractive n beautiful n intelligent.. guys get attracted to her, She can accept every proposal. She too has her feelings n she can't please everyone all d time.
Yea, but i completely agree, one should not hide their true feelings anytime. Dil ki baat ko juban pe le aana chahiye. Apne dil ko jeetne ki koshsih bhi karni chahiye, lekin agar samne wala na chahe to waqt rehte sambhal bhi jana chahiye.
and well thats is why it is said, love is blind .. and i think everything has a solution, and it is to discuss it, sit across on a table and do some loud thinking :) together ... its like if do you want the relationship to continue, because if you cant accept the reality ... i personally think that than you dont deserve to be in that relationship and that is too for friendship also ... but thats what i belive into ... friendship is a very pure thing :)
at least for me ... and i am sure if you both want then only its possible and everything in this world has a cost associated with it, could be in any from .. but there is ...
yes a girl is lucky in that respect, BUT it not about a guy or gal, no human being can satisfy everyone, even god is not able to how can we, i personally belive that if the people to whome i matter and who matter to me are fine and everything has to go right, because we understand each other ... to others a MIDDLE FINGER ...
never loose hope in love and war .. jst keep trying, but it should not make miserable life of other person, and i think if you really love the other person, you will take precautions that the life of other person never become sad because of you ... and the reason for that is also very simple because it will in the end hurt us more than them :)
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