Expectations !!!!

Kaha se Chali thi,
Kaha mujhko hai Jana,
Kis mod pe aake rooki hn,
Ki lagta hai har rasta anjaana,
Kya tamanna thi, kya mujhko hai pana,
Tamanna woh bhram thi, yeh maine na jana,
Kis rah pe chalke manzil milegi,
Milegi bhi ya mujhko chalte hi jana.


Zindagi bhi badi ajeeb hai, jo chaho ooske alawa sab kuch milta hai. Ek baar maine socha oolta kar ke dekhoo, lekin tht thing some how do not work. Meri ek hi problem hai., vaise bahoot saari hai, par ek ek karke hi bataoongi na..

Hi! Everyone,

As a child, we expect our mothers to feed, clean, comfort and love us. Our mothers expect us to be their babies.

As a teenager, we expect to do what we want, yet still come home when we want, to a hot meal & warm bed, whenever we want?

Our parents expect us to have respect for them and others, and to be careful that we do not get into trouble.

When we become adults, we are expected to pay our way in society, to be responsible citizens and to bring up our children in the same way that we have been brought up.But what do we expect of others, our friends and those that we have not met?

Do we expect them to be exactly like us?

Do we expect them to understand as we do?

Do we expect them to also exhibit the warmth and kindness that we have learnt to share?

Do we expect that because they have given of themselves to us in the past, that they must continue to do so even at the expense of their own truths or understandings, just because we want more?

Do you believe that there comes a time when we can all be together as friends, sharing as the need arises, as friends!With no false expectations?

Kya sahi hai, kya galat hai.. can somebody guide meeeeeeeeeee.

Will love 2 hear from u ?????

Dr. Cutiepie :)

The man i do not know

Woh kal valentine day hai na.. aisa kuch suna hai.. ab apun ke pass to koi valentine hai nahi.. to apun ne socha kuch oos ke baarein mai imagine karte hai.. abhi yeh sab sach hai.. abhi apun oos ko dhoondte dhoondte thak gayela hai.. bahoot khundas aa rela hai apun ko...

enough Dr. cutie pie.. be serious.. ok i'm serious now.. on marks ..get set go... it goes like this ............................

Maybe I've met you, but I can't recall. I waited for you to come into my life, but my heart is telling me that you've already passed through. I may have looked into your eyes, whatever color that may be.Blue as the sky on a bright summer day, or perhaps the day is cloudy and your eyes really grey. Or they might be green, the color of grass with a ray of sunlight adding that shine from above. They might be brown, deep and dark, but certainly the color of love.I wonder if we've spoken to one another. Words falling from our tongues, rich and delicious and as sweet as the first kiss we've yet to share. I can hear your voice, but strangely enough, there are no words there.I can picture your movements, gracefully taking one stride at a time,but I need to know, in which direction are you going? No hurry, take your time. I've waited for you all my life, the day will come when you will be mine.How does it sound when you speak my name? I can hear it so plainly, but is your voice deep and rasp or are there any words at all? Could it be that you're silent when it comes to love? As silent as the leaves that fall in the fall?When it's raining on my rooftop, is it also raining on yours? Tears from heaven because we have yet to be as one. Or just nature's way of drowning out the loneliness? At least until the union is done?Do you write as I do about our love unrealized? Or might you paint a picture of me, with no features except your name etched into my heart,whatever that name may be? Or might your sing your song or simply daydream? Do you daydream about me?How will it feel to hold you in my arms? I can feel your skin so soft, but the color I do not know. Dark as the shadow that watches over me every day until I find you or fair like a peach? Whatever color, hue, tint, to tone, I vow to love you eternally and that vow I will not breech.I haven't a clue where you are, but I know where you have been. You have passed through my dreams every night and continue to do so. I know not your given name, but fret not, In due time that name will be mine also,that and only that I do know.In the meantime, I names to which I refer, and these names suit you perfectly fine. I either call you by the name "Love" or I simply call you "Mine".Our union will be eternal, once I find you or you me, we shall never again part. I have a gift to present you with and that gift is my very own heart.Please find me love. I've kept my diligent search alive. The thought of you is sacred and precious, you're the reason I continue to strive.I am anxious, maybe a bit over so. There are some for whom I've tried to fall. But life's lessons have taught me well . . . I haven't known a true kind of love at all.I know I must be patient, once we're together there will be no end.But I need to find you once and for all, it is you on I and I on you, that we will always depend.But for now, there's only one thing on which I can depend. The one thing in my life that I can always turn to. I turn to the prospect of love everlasting, and that everlasting love, is you.

Do you have a thought virus ?

This silent biological virus has caused the underperformance of many excellent bio-computers. When you are infected by this virus, it prevents you from achieving excellent academic results. It causes disharmony in your relationships, whether they’re with your parents or your friends. It causes your parents to nag you. It is an obstacle to your full potential. It impacts all aspects of your life. What would you do if you knew that the underperformance of your computer was caused by a virus?

If antiviral software was available, you would immediately purchase and install the program so you could be working again wouldn’t you?

Isn’t it strange, then, that lots of people will let the “thought virus” continue to damage the most powerful computer ever created without cleaning up, removing or quarantining the infected files?

The last 23 years of training students, young adults, teachers and professionals ( actually bachpan se hi hum training dete aaye hai ) has shown me that many of these people could have achieved more if they had not allowed these thought virus to breed in all the different sectors of their bio-computer, the human brain. I can help you recognize the virus as the common basis of a self-defeating pattern and help you reprogram your bio-computer to keep the virus from entering your system.

First, let us do a quick review of the hardware (your brain) and see how it functions. Many articles and research show that the human brain is the most complex creation in the known universe. Our brain is made up of billions of brain cells called neurons. We each have an estimated 10 to 30 billion neurons. An average adult honeybee has only 7,000 neurons. With them it can build and maintain a honeycomb, calculate distance and signal to a companion where a pollen source is. We, on the other hand, have 10800 neuro connections. That’s 1 with 800 zeros behind it. It’s these neuro connections that determine our behaviors. The more connections we have, the smarter we become. The more you use your brain, the more neuro connections you’ll have. You become good at something when you use it. If you are lousy at something, you must do more of it. Learning a foreign language is a good example; you have to work hard to memorize words. But when you’re done, you will find that picking up the language a lot easier.

How do I know if my loved ones are infected with the thought virus? If you hear your friends or family continuously use phrases like “fine”, “OK” and “me too,” you know they’re in trouble. Answering a question with a one-word answer is the surest way to not stimulate your brain. You are asking your brain not to think. This stops your brain from making new connections, and it stops growing. The moment you shift the focus of your mind to a different perspective, more neuro connections are formed. People who are infected with this virus find it very difficult to get out of bad habits and reach out to greater height in whatever they want to do. At the end of the movie Rocky IV, a character says,” I can change. You can change. Everyone can change!” You, too, can change for the better.

4 any troubles do not hesitate to contact -

Dr. Cutiepie :)

10 things i wish i would have known before i went into the real world !!

Dosto,
There are occasions when we think ," If only I had known it earlier....n bla bla bla...
I must confess, I laughed when I saw that Maria Shriver has come out with a book called, “Ten Things I Wish I Had Known Before Going Into The Real World.” The real world? Come on, she grew up a Kennedy and married the biggest action movie star of all time! That aside, it got me to thinking: What are ten things I wish I would have known before going out into the real world? So, here they are…

Life isn’t fair. You know, your mother always told you this but as kids we never believe it. We think that somehow mom was two tacos short of a combo plate and that eventually we will go into the real world and show her how those who work hard and do right always do come out on top. Then after about five years we become disenchanted and start to smell the coffee. Life isn’t fair! Why didn’t anybody tell me that? I guess they did, didn’t they? Unfortunately, sometimes the bad guys wins. Sometimes people die early. We shouldn’t take this lightly, but we must be realists. While we accept what comes our way, we still strive to work hard, dream big, and do right.

People play favorites. It is true that it isn’t what you know but who you know that counts. This is because people play favorites. Sometimes it doesn’t matter that you are the best person or have the lowest bid. People will regularly cut deals with people they like or who can scratch their back in return. I guess the lesson to learn is that while we strive to achieve much and have excellent skills, we should also develop a strong network of healthy relationships.

People will let you down. Being a person who does what he says can be a blessing and a curse. It is a blessing because I am able to look at myself in the mirror each day. It is a curse because if you are like that, you will most likely expect that from others and yet they will regularly let you down. People can be bad at keeping their word or doing what is right. I could have relieved a lot of emotional stress if I would have known this one before getting out into the real world.

Not everybody wants to grow personally. I just assumed that everybody loved to learn and to grow. I thought everybody wanted to get better at what they did. The reality is, however, that most people do not. That is why there is something that we call “average.” Most people want to stay where they are. That is why they do. Those who strive to go forward will always be cutting against the grain and will often be resented, even if quietly, for it.

The stock market goes down sometimes. Some of you older folks knew this. But us young whippersnappers, we have been riding it high on the hog for a while. This is good in a sense, but unless you have some common sense of how financial markets work, you can get quite a shock from time to time. You see, before you get into the real world, everything gets handed to you and you really don’t have to work for much. Then you do and you think that every investment will turn out grand – whoops!

The older you get, the harder it is to lose weight. I was always a little “pudgy.” Nothing big, just not like the cover guys of Men’s Health Magazine (You know, the ones that say “Six-pack abs in 20 minutes a day.” I think that means they only eat twenty minutes a day, and it is usually stewed vegetables! But I digress…). If I would have known better, I would have worked harder when I was younger to keep the weight off so I wouldn’t have to work that much harder now! (yeh sab maine jhoot likha hai.. tis doesn't apply on meeeeeeeeeee.)

Marriage is work. A good marriage is more work. When you are young you think, “I’ll find the guy of my dreams and we’ll live happily ever after.” Well, hello! You forget that your spouse is human and you are too, most of the time! To live under the same roof with someone and to work out likes and dislikes, personalities, and schedules, not to mention life goals and the like is HARD WORK! Not drudgery, just work. Yes, there will be plenty of bliss and joy, but marriage will make you work for it! (same philosophy applies to keep a boy friend..)bas waha thode options increase ho jate hai....

It takes longer to get out of debt than to get into it. I have never really had much debt. I did take out student loans to pay for school and wow, do they take a long time to get out of. Fortunately I have them paid off but for a while there, it was one of the big checks we wrote every month. Many people think credit cards are great because they can have what they want when they want it. Too bad they don’t realize that twenty minutes of shopping ecstasy will result in months or years of payments.

It doesn’t work to try to please others. I have always wanted people to like me. Many times, I wanted them to like me too much. That isn’t good. This doesn’t work because I realized that most of the time, people liking or disliking you has nothing to do whatsoever with rational thought. Some people will dislike you, no matter how well you have done, and others will love you, warts and all. So I do my best and let the chips fall where they may – now. ..like inspite of my best effort to write tis blog, many people are going to criticize.. u can't help it ....

You need to tend to your spiritual, emotional, and physical health or you will crash hard. If you don’t take time for yourself, both inwardly and outwardly, your body will catch up with you. You can take time for yourself by choice or not. It is much more fun by choice! Life is hard and it can and will weigh you down. We need to tend the fires of spirit and mind while keeping our physical bodies tuned for success as well. If not, our bodies break down.

Bonus: In spite of the above, life is very much worth it! Some of the above may seem like bummers. They aren’t the “positive” things we like to focus on, but they are true. Being positive doesn’t mean sticking your head in the ground in order to avoid the negative of life. What it means is that we are realists who understand the negative aspects of life and choose to be optimists instead. We deal with the negative and pursue the positive.

That is why I can say that life is worth living no matter how expensive or painful the lessons I have had to learn have been. Life is good and I can make it better!

So I had to learn some lessons AFTER I got into the real world. So what? At least I learned them and can live the rest of my life to the fullest from now on! I hope you can too!

Cutiepie :)